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Chrm Message From: barkhajain Total Posts: 32 Join Date:
Rank: Executive Post Date: 03/08/2006 07:04:05 Points: 160 Location: India

Hello Everybody.

I am posting an article on 3 Simple Strategies for Never Losing out Again by Steve Errey.

Kindly go to the http://www.content.onlypunjab.com/Article/3-Simple-Strategies-For-Never-Losing-Out-Again/37281 for viewing the whole article.

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Barkha Jain

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3 Simple Strategies for Never Losing out Again

Life is full of ups and downs and sometimes has a few sideways thrown in too. When things go wrong or don’t go as planned, or when something happens to throw us off balance and doubt ourselves it can be tough to deal with. After all, we all want things to go well and to end up as ‘winners’. But life will always throw challenges at us, and we can’t control everything. Nor should we try. It’s not what happens to you but what you do with what happens to you that makes the difference.

Here are three easy ways that you can always come out on top.

1. Focus on Your Strengths
2. Set Things Up Ahead Of Time
3. There’s No Such Thing as Losing Anyway


1. Focus on Your Strengths

We’re a bunch of contradictions – sorry to break it to you. Sometimes happy, sometimes sad; sometimes hopeful, sometimes pessimistic; sometimes childish and sometimes mature. We also have a whole load of strengths and weaknesses that affect what we do and how we do it, but tend to put more focus on our weaknesses and not our strengths.

Strength is something that you do consistently well or at a near-perfect level of performance – it’s something you’re just able to do, you’re hard-wired to do it well and you get an inherent satisfaction from doing it. It could be tackling and solving complex problems, empathising with people, having a lively imagination or being able to make the perfect omelette.

Focusing on what you do well rather than what you’re not so good at makes all kinds of sense. When you look at what you’re not good at you feel bad about yourself and your ability, but when you focus on and play to your strengths you’re guaranteed to get results, and can even eliminate any negative effect your weaknesses might have.

There was a guy I worked with who hated public speaking and recognised that it was one of his weaknesses. He worked as an advertising executive and as he climbed the ladder he found he had to do more and more presentations – he’d stutter, freeze, forget his point and not perform at his best at all. But when we focused on his strengths we found that he had amazing social skills, an ability to establish great rapport with people in no time at all and had a fantastic sense of humour. Using those strengths he was able to connect easily with each person in his audience, enjoy himself a whole lot more and to deliver presentations that had fun, humour and warmth in them. He used his strengths to overwhelm his weaknesses and went from strength to strength himself.

2. Set Things Up Ahead Of Time

Sure, there will be times when you can just head into something, do brilliantly at it and get the result you were hoping for (normally if you’re playing to your strengths), but other times you might blunder forwards, wing it and not get the result you wanted. Whatever challenges or opportunities you’re facing you’ll stand a much better chance of getting a great result if you set things up to succeed ahead of time.

So what exactly do you want to happen? What solution, outcome or result would be great? Get really clear on the outcome you want from what’s facing you and how it would feel to get the outcome you’re looking for. Then start breaking it down – what can you do to set things up so that your desired outcome happens? What needs to be put in place? What will help to make what you want to happen, happen? And to ensure the best outcome, what are you willing to do?

http://www.content.onlypunjab.com/Article/3-Simple-Strategies-For-Never-Losing-Out-Again/37281

Chrm Message From: jv_krishnan Total Posts: 1 Join Date:  
Rank: Beginner Post Date: 21/04/2010 05:34:20 Points: 5 Location: India
nice article...will start practicising it now!!! thanks
Chrm Message From: arshadsq Total Posts: 4 Join Date:  
Rank: Beginner Post Date: 14/06/2010 10:09:40 Points: 20 Location: India

Jain, nice article, practicable if acted upon. At least we should remove our weaknesses and try to findout strengths but depends upon the person. What do u think?

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Arshad Saeed Qureshi