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Chrm Message From: priyanka Total Posts: 67 Join Date: 26/09/2006
Rank: Manager Post Date: 26/09/2006 13:17:16 Points: 335 Location: United States

Attitude is contagious, few agree and yet other's don't. But it has to start from somewhere and that somewhere is you. It's completely our choice to embrace positive or negative attitude. Read this story, embrace positivity and initiate the process of transferring this wonderful attribute.

Once there was a little boy who was walking on the streets , he was very poor and shabby, on the way he saw a chat shop where lot of people gathered and they were spending their evening, this boy slowly picked up a bag and started counting something , the shop fellow felt this boy to be nuisance and he went to the boy and scolded him,what stupid fellow ,go away this is not a place to beg,

The boy replied, sir I have not come here to beg , then what you want ?

He said ,I want to buy a sandwich and a coffee,

Shop man laughed at the boy and remarked ,You know how much the sandwich and coffee cost?

The boy replied yes sir it is 10 Rupees and fifty paise,

Then the shopman was amazed and asked the boy

then what you were counting

Then the boy replied

Sir I wanted to check whether , I have more than 10 Rs

Because my father advised me in the following

Whenever you spend 10 Rs give one rupee as Charity,

Whenever you see a person with Hunger and you are having money ,atleast feed him with food that will solve atleast half hunger and give him energy to beg another half.

Never spend money unnecessarily.

So before giving the money to you , I want to make sure that I fulfill my Father's wish,

Here I have 11 Rupees and fifty paise

So cut the sandwich into two half and give me, I have seen a old lady begging for food near your shop,

(The shop man many times have beaten the lady inspite of surplus he has at the end of the day ,whenever she comes for food , he lies to her say nothing id left over)

So saying this the boy walked away from that place ,giving half sandwich to the old lady and little bit of coffee.

On his way he gave one rupee to a blind beggar

And he walked way with a fragrance equal to millions of Roses

A fragrance of Right Attitude which can never be achieved through- Money, Pride, Ego, Jealousy,Greed.

But will be near you when you go behind-Love,Care Share and Positive thinking

Friends & Colleagues

Due to busy schedule we forget many simple facts.

I will be honouring these facts today and I hope it will help you , to introspect on this lines

Give and Take

Feeding a hungry Stomach is equal to giving charity in Temple

God has never asked you for money

Hungry Man 's requirement is food and water not money.

Never fail to help in what ever way you can

Love all serve all

Remember your day of success, failure, pride, cheating, depression is not very far, so spread positve feeling..

Regards,

Priyanka ( New CHRM ' ITE...)

Chrm Message From: barkhadoshi Total Posts: 32 Join Date: 26/09/2006  
Rank: Executive Post Date: 27/09/2006 04:04:49 Points: 160 Location: United States

Dear Priyanka,

Suppose you are thirsty and you find at last a glass, half filled with water. How do you see the glass? You may see it either half full or half empty. If you see it half full with water, then your outlook is positive. A mind with a negative outlook tends to see it half empty. As we all know, to live with a negative mind is so distressing, because it sees the dark side of things, including one's own self. Such a person blames everyone for his failures. You can't make him happy even if you give him all that he asks for.

Regards,

Barkha Doshi

Chrm Message From: Danish Total Posts: 28 Join Date: 26/09/2006  
Rank: Executive Post Date: 27/09/2006 04:12:36 Points: 140 Location: United States

Dear Colleagues,

Attitude is the way you communicate your mood to others. When you are optimistic and anticipate successful encounters, you transmit a positive attitude and people usually respond favourably. When you are pessimistic and expect the worst, your attitude is often negative.

I would recomment all to read this book 'Attitude by Elwood N. Chapman' which shows how a positive outlook provides the courage to address a problem and take action to resolve it before it gets out of hand. By refusing to become angry or distraught can motivate you to assemble the facts, talk to others, determine your options and then come up with the best solution. Even if there is no ideal solution, your attitude can help you live with the problem more gracefully which will help neutralize its negative impact. The book guides on how positive attitude triggers enthusiasm, enhances creativity, improves personality and provides higher energy levels. Most of us live comfortably with inherited traits and characteristics. We can make improvements through better lifestyle management. But after doing our best in these areas, we must recognize that all further improvement must come through a better projection of what we already possess. The vehicle that will accomplish this is a positive attitude.

Regards,

DaNiSh

 
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