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Chrm Message From: CHRM Total Posts: 178 Join Date:
Rank: Leader Post Date: 07/07/2006 03:39:17 Points: 890 Location: India

A parable is told of a farmer who owned an old mule. The mule fell into the farmer's well. The farmer heard the mule 'braying' - or - whatever mules do when they fall into wells. After carefully assessing the situation, the farmer sympathized with the mule, but decided that neither the mule nor the well was worth the trouble of saving. Instead, he called his neighbors together and told them what had happened...and enlisted them to help haul dirt to bury the old mule in the well and put him out of his misery.

Initially, the old mule was hysterical! But as the farmer and his neighbors continued shoveling and the dirt hit his back...a thought struck him. It suddenly dawned on him that every time a shovel load of dirt landed on his back...HE SHOULD SHAKE IT OFF AND STEP UP! This he did, blow after blow.

"Shake it off and step up...shake it off and step up...shake it off and step up!" he repeated to encourage himself. No matter how painful the blows, or distressing the situation seemed the old mule fought "panic" and just kept right on SHAKING IT OFF AND STEPPING UP!

You're right! It wasn't long before the old mule, battered and exhausted, STEPPED TRIUMPHANTLY OVER THE WALL OF THAT WELL! What seemed like it would bury him, actually blessed him...all because of the manner in which he handled his adversity.
THAT'S LIFE! If we face our problems and respond to them positively, and refuse to give in to panic, bitterness, or self-pity...THE ADVERSITIES THAT COME ALONG TO BURY US USUALLY HAVE WITHIN THEM THE POTENTIAL TO BENEFIT AND BLESS US!

Remember that FORGIVENESS--FAITH--PRAYER-- PRAISE and HOPE...all are excellent ways to "SHAKE IT OFF AND STEP UP" out of the wells in which we find ourselves!

- Author Unknown

Regards,

CHRM

"To win...you must stay in the game" - Claude Bristol

Chrm Message From: madure Total Posts: 261 Join Date:  
Rank: Coach Post Date: 07/07/2006 05:17:31 Points: 1355 Location: India

Yes it's a good story. Often when we climb a mountain we realize that there are little thorns and pebbles that disturb our journey. But those very things give you a grip to climb the mountain. if you only had sand, you will never get to the top.

Forgiveness is also something essential because it makes your burden lighter when you don't carry excess baggage.

It reminds me of this wonderful saying:

" Forgiveness is the fragrance the vilolet sheds on the heel that crushed it"

Prof.Lakshman

 
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