this is Nandan Chetry, I often feel inferior and nervous when I need to approach someone for my official purpose, scare of people and much more. how do I get rid of these problems ?
with regards
Nandan Chetry
Message From: Jyoti Rani
Total Posts: 65
Join Date: 30/04/2009
Rank: Manager
Post Date: 30/04/2009 14:07:42
Points: 325
Location: India
Hi Nandan,
I think you should just simply try to ask yourself why u are scared of approaching someone, that too in official matters,
1 . is it because your points are not valid ? 2. is it because you have communication problems? 3. Is it because the kind of people you are working with are not comfortable ? 4. Is it because you are introvert by nature ?
If your point 1 is not a concern than why you should be scared of to talk, your points should be clear to the person you are going to approach that it. If 2, please start working towards it now. If 3, start analysing the discomfort areas from your end and vice versa If 4. start working on that, as whereever its required, you have to speak and deal with people.
